Friday, February 18, 2011

Bad News Today



 These collages of my dad as a boy were made for a birthday one year.
 Their engagement annoucement.  I made this collage for their 55th.
 He was in love with my mom the first day they met.
I thank you all for your prayers for my dad but he passed yesterday morning. He and my mom had been together for 59 years. We are all doing ok. I guess I am still in shock as it is hard to believe that he is gone. My dad was one of those incredible people who knew a little bit about every subject. He was always learning new things and had an incredible love of books. My dad Iz Ungar was a polymer chemist and even after he retired he worked until he was 79 travelling worldwide consulting. He had over 50 US Patents to his name and 100 international patents.

Thank you all for your words of comfort.  It is great to konw there are so many friends out there.
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55 comments:

  1. happyglitzygirlFebruary 18, 2011 at 5:19 PM

    My condolences. Sorry to here about the loss of your DAD. I know how it effected me when I lost my Dad, which is now 20 years ago. There isn't a day that goes past i don't think of him in one way or another. Blessings Hilde

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  2. PaulaFebruary 18, 2011 at 5:20 PM

    So very sorry for your loss.

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  3. AnnFebruary 18, 2011 at 5:23 PM

    My deepest sympahies to you and your family and all who loved your father.I lost my father 6 years ago...my mother had died 5 yrs before that and they had been married for 65 yrs. He started "dying" when she went to heaven. Your father sounds like a wonderful man who will be deeply missed. I hope your memories help you through this difficult and painful time. Ann

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  4. febikaFebruary 18, 2011 at 5:32 PM

    Кора, примите мои соболезнования. Мой отец и отец моего мужа, они сейчас в больнице и ожидают операции. так совпала что они оба больны. Мы все семьей стараемся им помочь, и я даже не понимаю что будет если их не станет.... Я не могу понять Ваше горе ...... но хочу поддержать Вас в трудную минуту. У меня 10 лет назад погиб 20летний брат - и мы успокаивали себя мыслью что в том мире ему лучше и легче. Пусть и Вашему отцу будет там легко и хорошо. У нас в России говорят - пусть земля ему будет пухом... Крепитесь.

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  5. Esther AsburyFebruary 18, 2011 at 5:34 PM

    So sorry for your loss, Cora....you have my deepest sympathies.

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  6. RebeccaFebruary 18, 2011 at 5:42 PM

    I am sorry for your loss, will think good thoughts for your family.

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  7. Auntie EmFebruary 18, 2011 at 5:47 PM

    I am so sorry to read about your loss. Hopefully you and your family will find comfort and peace in all your loving and wonderful memories of your father.
    Thinking of you. {{{Hugs}}}

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  8. In the Light of the MoonFebruary 18, 2011 at 7:24 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss.Your Pappa by the way you described him,sounded like a wonderful man.Warmest Regards,Cat

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  9. Folk HeartFebruary 18, 2011 at 7:58 PM

    Oh, bless your heart! There are few things in life that will impact you the way this will, and I wish there were something I could say to make you feel better. I can tell you definitively that you should not worry that he will "go" away from you. I am very happy to tell you that he will always be with you, and it is such a comfort. It's been 12 years for me, and Daddy is still here!

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  10. JulieFebruary 18, 2011 at 8:12 PM

    So sorry to hear of your Dad's passing. It is a blessing to hold on to the dear sweet memories they leave us. I really feel that that generation was very special in a lot of ways. Lean on the Lord and he will give you strength when you need it and comfort when the tears come. Hugs and prayers for you and your family.

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  11. RobinFebruary 18, 2011 at 8:18 PM

    So sorry to hear of your loss cora. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family during this difficult time of loss.

    Hugs,
    Robin

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  12. It is wellFebruary 18, 2011 at 8:19 PM

    So sorry to hear this. I will pray for your family as you walk through this time of grief.
    Amy

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  13. KellyFebruary 18, 2011 at 8:27 PM

    My heart goes out to you. Take comfort in the things he taught you and all the goodness he shared throughout his life.

    Many Blessings

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  14. debiFebruary 18, 2011 at 8:29 PM

    Cora, I am so sorry for your loss. Losing our parents is so difficult.
    Hold tight to your sweet memories of him, they will help you get through it.
    You are in my thoughts and prayers.
    Hugs, Debi

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  15. SharDon ExclusivesFebruary 18, 2011 at 8:31 PM

    Cora, I am soooo sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers are with you and your family. Bless you, sweet lady during this time of heartache,
    Sharon

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  16. marshaFebruary 18, 2011 at 8:48 PM

    Cora, I'm sorry for your loss. Saying a prayer for you and your family.
    Hugs,
    Marsha

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  17. CecFebruary 18, 2011 at 8:57 PM

    Cora, my condolences go to you and your family. Your Dad sounds a lot like my late Father-in-Law. He too was always learning new things and even up until his death at age 87, he was teaching himself how to use a computer.
    Your Dad may not be with you in person but he has moved to a special place in your heart where he will always be.
    Big Gentle Hugs!
    Cec

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  18. Beverly...Heartland CreationsFebruary 18, 2011 at 9:47 PM

    Cora, I am so sorry to hear of your fathers passing. I hope you can find comfort in the memories you have. Bless your heart.

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  19. My Vintage StudioFebruary 18, 2011 at 10:28 PM

    So sorry for your loss, Cora....you have my deepest sympathies.

    I will include you and your family in my prayers.
    Hugs, Sharon

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  20. Stephanie Suzanne DesignsFebruary 18, 2011 at 10:30 PM

    Cora,

    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss.
    I know you will miss him so much...my what an accomplished man he was...something that you will carry with you all of your life.

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  21. Sonya BadgleyFebruary 18, 2011 at 11:22 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss. I lost my Dad 6 years ago and it is still hard to believe. And I lost my Mom last July. I will always miss them both. You're Dad sounds like an incrediable man. My heart goes out to you.
    Thoughts and prayers going to you and your family, Cora.
    Sonya

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  22. JudyFebruary 19, 2011 at 12:52 AM

    Those we love don't go away,
    They walk beside us every day,
    Unseen, unheard, but always near,
    Still so loved, still so missed and so very dear.

    My sympathies are with you, Cora.

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  23. Juli@KorotaevaFebruary 19, 2011 at 1:02 AM

    So sorry for your your loss. Your father will continue to live in your thoughts and your memories.

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  24. Tammy@T's Daily TreasuresFebruary 19, 2011 at 2:50 AM

    Sending thoughts and prayers your way that you and your family will find peace and comfort during this difficult time. Your memories of your father will keep him with you forever. Best wishes and blessings, Tammy

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  25. BonnieFebruary 19, 2011 at 3:22 AM

    Cora,
    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. I know you will miss him terribly. It sounds like he had a great influence on the person you are today.

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  26. Kathy B.February 19, 2011 at 3:28 AM

    There are no words except to say that I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

    kathy.bruner@hotmail.com

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  27. LululizFebruary 19, 2011 at 3:37 AM

    I can't imagine how hard this must be for you and your family. Your Dad sounds like a fascinating man who obviously had a lot to give and will be missed by so many people. Take comfort in the wonderful memories you have.

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  28. DortheFebruary 19, 2011 at 4:04 AM

    Dear Cora-
    I`m sorry for you, for your loss- and hope you can cope with the next dayes .
    Hugs,Dorthe

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  29. ColourFlyFebruary 19, 2011 at 5:23 AM

    I am so sorry to hear about your loss Cora!

    Hugs,
    Sabine

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  30. UnknownFebruary 19, 2011 at 5:36 AM

    I'm so sorry to hear about your big loss Cora, I know how you must be feeling right now. Even though you think you've lost your bearings right now, please try to realize that love has not ended between the two of you. I'm giving you a big hug from here, Ira x

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  31. Marlene DiefendorfFebruary 19, 2011 at 10:19 AM

    My condolences, Cora, on the loss of your Dad. I can tell you he will always be with you. I lost my Dad 24 yrs ago and there is always something that reminds me of him... and it's always pleasant not sad.

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  32. SheilaFebruary 19, 2011 at 11:46 AM

    So sorry for your loss.
    My thoughts are with you.
    Sheila

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  33. tjsFebruary 19, 2011 at 12:48 PM

    Sorry to hear about your loss. Sounds like you have many great memories that'll get you through this difficult time. Blessings

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  34. Jean Franks BeckFebruary 19, 2011 at 2:11 PM

    I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and best wishes to you and your family during this sorrowful time.

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  35. Sandie RFebruary 19, 2011 at 2:12 PM

    Cora, so sorry for your loss. Condolences and my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I have been there myself and know your sorrow. The memories of all that he was will help you through the rough times.

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  36. LynnFFebruary 19, 2011 at 3:48 PM

    Cora, my deepest condolences over the loss. I lost my dad 48 years ago and miss him every single day. Please know you will have all your memories, death can't steal them...and his love in your heart always. God bless your family at this time.

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  37. AndreaFebruary 19, 2011 at 4:13 PM

    So sorry for your loss! You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!

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  38. UnknownFebruary 19, 2011 at 7:00 PM

    So sorry for your loss. hugs to you.

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  39. CynthiaFebruary 19, 2011 at 9:48 PM

    I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, Cora. Your dad sounds like a fascinating person.

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  40. VintageCrafterFebruary 19, 2011 at 11:13 PM

    My sincere condolences. I am so sorry for your loss.
    ~Carol

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  41. MicheleFebruary 20, 2011 at 12:50 PM

    i am so sorry for your loss. i send loving healing thoughts to you and your family. take good care of yourselves and of each other. xo

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  42. prutselsFebruary 20, 2011 at 3:33 PM

    Sorry for your loss.

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  43. TeresaFebruary 20, 2011 at 8:04 PM

    I am sorry.

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  44. ReneFebruary 21, 2011 at 12:12 PM

    My deepest condolences! I did not expect to read this news today. :-( I will pray for you and your family.

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  45. ShellyFebruary 21, 2011 at 11:14 PM

    I'm so very sorry that you lost your dad, Cora. He sure does sound like a wonderful man. My prayers are with you and your family. Hugs.

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  46. Dana GustafsonFebruary 23, 2011 at 1:40 AM

    Thinking of you and sening you many cyber hugs. It is hard to say goodbye!

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  47. ShellyFebruary 24, 2011 at 4:35 PM

    I just wanted to let you know I'm continuing to think about you and pray for you, Cora. Hugs!!!

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  48. AnonymousFebruary 27, 2011 at 10:21 AM

    So sorry to hear about your dad, Cora. Take care.

    Kathy

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  49. GratefulPrayerThankfulHeartMarch 5, 2011 at 8:57 AM

    Sending my condolences in the loss of your dear dad.

    Sincerely, Lorraine

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  50. Linda Anne YoungMarch 6, 2011 at 12:35 PM

    Your father was a wonderful man and I am sorry for your loss! May God give you peace through friends and your fantastic memories!
    Thank you for the beauty you share through your site, which I just found today. God bless you!Linda

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  51. mcgaelicgalMarch 11, 2011 at 9:00 PM

    I can't even imagine what you're feeling. He sounds like an exceptional man. May you eventually find comfort in the unique memories you must have.

    Regards ~ Kiki

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  52. Jennifer ScullMarch 13, 2011 at 8:09 PM

    my computer crashed & burned well over 6 weeks ago, so my husband has let me borrow his this weekend. I am just getting around to my favorite blogs & have discovered your news.

    my thoughts and prayers are with you right now. I'm sorry I am late, but know you are in my heart. I pray you will find comfort in knowing you are deeply loved by so many.

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  54. YvonneMarch 25, 2011 at 2:17 AM

    Dear Cora,
    Just by accident I discovered your blog, and almost directly red about the loss of your father, just one month ago. I hope you'll except my deepest sympathies. I'm sure you will remember all the good things, the great memories and joy and caring that he brought to you and your family. He will always be with you in your thought and in your heart.
    Warm greetings from Yvon

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  55. PanktiMarch 30, 2011 at 2:28 AM

    My deepest sympathy to you... I am sure you must be feeling low but it seems your father had a wonderful life with your mother. I with all the great memories will keep you Smiling...

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